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In the meantime, you should distance yourself even further from your mother.
She’s toxic and awful and, though you may never stop loving her, I would caution against ever having a relationship with her again.
I woke up my husband and asked him to please show me the message.
He unlocked his phone and deleted the message and said, “You’re being ridiculous.” I started losing my cool. ” My husband came in screaming, telling me to return to our bedroom because I’d lost my mind. The next afternoon, my mother suggested I see a therapist and maybe ask for an antidepressant after my pregnancy because I’m paranoid and anxious.
When I’m without him and alone, I become angry and begin to just break down under myself. Get it regardless of whether you decide to give your marriage another chance.
How do I continue this healing process without being a woman scorned and without ruining my marriage? Get it because you have been betrayed in the most hurtful way by the two people you trusted most.
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Living in denial won’t really keep your family intact. It won’t get rid of the rage inside you that needs some place to go. And until you accept that he is just as responsible for having sex with your mother as she is for having sex with him, you aren’t ready to move forward.
I walked swiftly across the house and into my mother’s room and confronted her, asking her if she had something going on with my husband. Six weeks after my pregnancy I did just that, but I couldn’t shake the feeling that there had been something more to their messages.
Then during the last week in March, my mother confided in me that she had HSV-2 (genital herpes) and had had it for 10 years.
(Quick note: He and I and our newborn have been tested for HSV-2 as well as other STDs and have tested negative).
I’ve now had my mother move out and have ceased all communication with her (even though I work with her) and I’m trying to move on, but I want to stay with my husband.