Problems with dating a married woman
While you are going head over heels for her, have you thought about the consequences that you might face? You would not want the husband come chasing after you, would you? Don't get touchy with her - She is married and she already has a husband to take care of.
Most married women are not looking for long-term relationship. She doesn't want to get to know you too well or to listen to you blabbing about your problems.
At the same time, they would not want a divorce from the current relationship. Keep your mouth shut about the affair - Don't start announcing it to your friends about the hot married woman you're seeing.
All they are looking for during this secret pursuit is just to look for the passion, care and love that they are deprived of. Not only you will end up hurting yourself, (emotionally and physically), but also you will end up hurting the husband and your beloved lover. But if you are truly madly with her and the fact that having an affair with her still entices you, then find ways to please her while the relationship lasts.
However, the family members and well wishers would certainly not expect the wife cheating on her husband and having an extramarital affair.
During a marriage counselling session, the husband and wife were sitting in front of me.
Well, it can be blind but you are not THAT blind to judge whether or not you should be dating married women.
Here are some suggestions of what you can do: It sounds like she's not ready to have the relationship you want right now. This doesn't have to mean that you can never have a relationship together, but maybe just not right now.
I'm counseling a man right now who within weeks of finding out that his wife was cheating on him, separated and started dating.
Within 60 days of separating, he was in a pretty serious new relationship.
Whatever were the details of the case, a few questions repeatedly hammered my mind – Do married women have extra marital affair? It may not be possible to quote statistics from some authentic research or survey on extra marital affairs involving married women as it would depend from place to place and time to time.
But it is safe to presume that the percentage of cases where married women are cheating on their spouse is increasing and the absolute numbers are also alarming.